Anal Sex – Natural Sex Ideas

Beautiful images from nature can stimulate very erotic thoughts. These two flowers are from my wife’s flower garden. Even alone, the resemblance to certain erogenous zones is hard to overlook. Together, your erotic imagination gravitates to a single taboo, albeit very natural, sexual activity. With this picture as inspiration, let’s consider a few anal sex and anal foreplay ideas.

Greek Tickler
Similar to a French Tickler, let’s dub this one a Greek Tickler – the tickler part is on the rear end too. I have seen a number of sex toys intended for double penetration of both the vagina and anus but don’t recall seeing any with tickler nubs. Butt plugs can be used as foreplay to prepare for anal intercourse or even kept in while having regular vaginal sex, oral sex or during other foreplay activities. Anal play is a naughty pleasure both women and men can enjoy regardless of sexual orientation. Remember to use lots of lubrication with your anal toys and be very gentle. All anal toys should have a flared base to ensure they do not get lost inside.

Double Entry
Many women fantasize about being completely filled up – both vaginally and anally at the same time. Whether you have a spare cock on hand or not, you can fulfill her fantasy with a penis double. A dildo, vibrator or butt plug are quick substitutes when you need to make a double entry – even accountants can do it (couldn’t resist).

Bud Sex
Just a little play on words but Butt Sex can be enjoyed by hetero-sexual men too. It has also been discovered that prostate massage via anal play may actually have health benefits. Prostate massage can create very intense orgasms by itself or combined with fellatio or a hand job. There are even sex toys specially designed as prostate massagers for men to be used during masturbation or sex with a partner. Consider experimenting with intercourse while having a butt plug inserted for an even more explosive orgasm. Guys that allow their girl friend or wife to penetrate them anally may also help encourage them to explore and enjoy anal intercourse too. Mutual anal play can definitely spice up your relationship. Check out this Bend Over Boyfriend article for some additional information. If you are interested in strap-on role reversal sex play, take a look at the Feeldoe or Nexus double dildos. There are also double anal dildos that can be used for a little cheek-to-cheek action.

Anal Artist
The anus is highly concentrated with nerves. Even if you do not intend to indulge in anal intercourse, creatively stimulating this sensitive region can be extremely pleasurable. Imagine painting the anus with a brush as though it were a delicate flower. Trace each petal lightly with a dry artist brush just tickling an outline of your master piece. Then add some lube to your brush and stroke the petals again with a nice smooth gliding motion. You could even use body paints for a visual delight. Choose various types of artist brushes and swirling, stroking techniques to create new sensations in your erotic art world.

Anal Intercourse
Intercourse does mean communication and anal sex definitely requires it. The anal tissues are extremely delicate and can be torn. Anal intercourse can actually be a more intimate sexual activity because it does require a deeper level of trust and sensitivity. When engaging in anal sex, go very, very slow at first and use lots of water based lubrication. Relaxation is critical to great anal sex. Stress related tension may build up in the ass making anal play less pleasurable. More foreplay will help your lover relax so that they can fully enjoy the intimately erotic experience of anal stimulation. See Anal Sex From A Female Perspective for more insights – there are related links to more of her articles on anal sex that are very well written.

Special Notes: Here are a few notes to consider when adding anal play to your sexual repertoire:

• You may not have seen many articles discussing the possible "mess" associated with anal sex. In general, fecal matter is not stored in the rectum but some may remain. Use a towel beneath you as a precaution. Porn stars performing anal sex scenes use an anal douche before the shoot to fully clean out the rectum. Again, the need to communicate helps in the preparation so that no one is anxious or feeling dirty.
• In the past, it was recommended to use desensitizing creams or lubes to "reduce the pain" of anal intercourse. In my opinion, this is extremely bad. First of all, anal sex should not be painful at all. With proper foreplay, anal stimulation and relaxation, the sphincter muscles will relax and easily accommodate a penis or dildo. You will want to feel stretching and fullness as part of your pleasure but definitely not discomfort. Second, pain is a warning that something could be tearing and desensitizing creams will suppress these important signals. You may even engage in rougher sex when you are not ready for it causing more damage. Third, the point of anal sex is to experience mutual pleasure. If you desensitize or numb the anal nerves you also reduce the sense of pleasure you can receive from them. This note also applies to alcohol and drug use. If you are engaging in anal sex just for the guy’s benefit and not your own pleasure too – don’t.
• Experiment with different positions to discover one that feels best. Doggie style, spooning, woman on top and missionary are a few variations that offer their own benefits. Also consider the psychological aspects of the different positions since they can add to the thrill of anal intercourse.
• Always wear a condom for anal intercourse even in a committed, monogamous relationship.

If you are a beginner to anal sex or do it often, check out this Anal Toys and Anal Pleasure article for ideas on how to more fully enjoy this taboo yet natural and very intimate sexual experience.

P.S. If you have ever watched the movie The Secret, you are aware of the powerful Law of Attraction. Something very curious happened as I was putting the finishing touches on this article. I subscribe to a number of sex related news letters. Within 8 hours while writing this particular article, I received two anal sex related emails – one from Eden Fantasys and another from My Pleasure. Wonder what or who will come next.

What other sexy ideas can you think of related to the picture above?

Locations to Make Love

Loch Ard Gorge Panorama picture from Wikipedia

Continuing on with the earlier Natural Foreplay Ideas post, here is a picture I stumbled upon that immediately conjures up interesting thoughts (at least in my dirty mind). It also ties in with a new article I recently published 69 Places For Passion - Lusty Locations to Make Love. You could actually check off a few of the 69 lovemaking locations at this spot:

• On a boat in the open air (not below deck)
• On the top of a large hill or small mountain under the stars or full moon.
• While skinny dipping at night in a pool, river, lake or ocean.
• Outside in the refreshing, cool rain during a hot day or night.
• Anywhere under the hot sun with an ice dildo.
• In a sleeping bag in the open air under a clear sky bright with stars.
• On a beach on the hot, dry sand or right on the shore with the waves lapping up around you.
• Anywhere you can see and hear huge crashing waves.
• In a cave, tunnel or under a bridge. (risky in caves around the water)
• In front of a tripod mounted video camera or webcam.
• Next to an open fire while camping.
• Snuggling together in a sleeping bag in a small tent.

A bedroom is a comfortable place to make love but there are so many exciting locations to have passionate sex. Whether spontaneous and urgent or planned for fun, sex in new locations can be extremely thrilling. Why not try to check off all 69 lovemaking locations and come up with more of your own.

Here are a few foreplay ideas using the picture as inspiration.

Wet'n Juicy
While kissing and licking her thighs, she uses her fingers to gently stroke herself. Observe her fingers as she tantalizes herself to demonstrate her desires. Learn her techniques and rhythm as she builds her arousal. When she is Wet'n Juicy, she will hold her lips apart for you to quench your thirst and hers.

See Juicy With Joy and Gushing With Pleasure for more details on amazing G-spot orgasms.

Gorging Pleasure
Use your fingers to spread her lips apart. Let your tongue slowly explore, teasing every nerve as you savor her taste. Lick, suck and nibble her lips then grab her hips and pull her onto your tongue. Make it penetrate deep into her vagina. Sweep the vaginal walls with your tongue for as long as you can. Let her guide your pace as you lick and suck her to absolute ecstasy.

Orgasmic Tsunami
More intense orgasms can be created by repeatedly building the arousal just to the brink and then slowing down or altering the type of stimulation. Keep the arousal flowing in pulsing waves but don’t let it get out of control until you want it to. When your lover is ready to burst in a flood of ecstasy, push her over the edge with your tantalizing tongue. Give her an earth shuddering orgasm with tidal waves of pleasure.

Over the Edge
During the heat of passion, you may find yourself going over the edge almost to the point of toppling out of bed. The sense of wild abandon can heighten your erotic thrill. Why leave it to chance. Position yourself over the edge of your bed and feel the exhilarating rush as you build toward an intense orgasm. Hold on tight for a fun ride Over the Edge.


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In what new location or setting would you like to have sex? What other foreplay ideas pop into your mind when you see the erotic image above?