Get Frisky During the Holidays - 10 Randy Reasons to Have More Festive Sex

With all the hustle and bustle during the holidays, many couples tend to overlook their own pleasure. The spirit of giving should apply to yourself and your relationship as well. Not in a selfish way of course, but rather as a way to enhance your bond together so that you have even more joy and happiness to share. The holidays provide the perfect opportunity to get frisky with each other and have more intimate fun together. Here are 10 randy reasons to enjoy more sex during the holidays:

1. You have more time to leisurely enjoy deeper levels of intimacy. Luxuriate in the subtle sensual pleasures of prolonged foreplay as you creatively explore each others' mind and body.


2. When you have great sex you are happier with each other and toward other people. You will radiate a warm glow that will touch everyone you meet. You will indirectly share your love for each other and add more cheer to the holiday season.


3. Adapt the 12 Days of Christmas concept into a creative challenge to have different sexual experiences 12 days in a row. Plan unique sex play ideas together in advance or spontaneously surprise your lover with a totally new sensual delight each day. Bonus points if you can include all activities from previous days building toward a spectacular climax. Keep the erotic fires burning through the holidays.


4. Create lasting memories with a special new relationship building tradition just for the two of you. It can be simple and sweet such as slow dancing naked at midnight while kissing under mistletoe or extravagant like having sex together in a different city or country every year. Give yourself something naughty or nice to look forward to all year long.


5. Plan a private, more intimate gift giving time with distinctly erotic intentions. Surprise each other with unique or exotic luxury love toys and accessories that convey how much you treasure the pleasures you share together.


6. Get ready for an evening out two hours early then ravish each other while dressed up and looking your best. Have sex while partially clothed to make it even more exciting. Even if just a quickie, your sexy tryst will have you eagerly anticipating more fun when you return home. Also, it is a good reason to drink in moderation so you can keep your private after party going all night.


7. Sex burns off calories and is an excellent exercise when done vigorously for extended periods. Enjoy feasting while knowing you will need the energy later to keep up with each other. Hot & sticky sexercise sessions for at least 20 minutes three times a week can be great for your health.


8. Schedule time for sensual stress relief to break up the hectic holiday festivities. Great sex is an excellent way to melt away stress. Multiple sex therapy sessions during the day may be in order. If you don't think you have time for sex, reconsider, make it a priority and you will be amazed how good you feel.


9. Savor chocolates, sweet liquors and other deliciously succulent holiday foods while thinking of naughty ways to incorporate them into your sex play. Secretly flirt and tempt each other with decadent ideas of oral arousal. Everything will taste even better when you whet your erotic appetite for each other.


10. Challenge each other to have a simultaneous orgasm at the stroke of midnight on New Year's Eve. You may want to rehearse frequently before the big event to get the timing right.

Sexual intimacy is essential to a healthy, loving relationship. Regardless of your reasons, take advantage of any opportunity you can to make love. During this holiday season, show how much you appreciate the one you love by spending more intimate time enjoying each other. Your gift of loving pleasure will be treasured. Make pleasure a priority and enjoy great sex together as often as you can what ever your reason.

Invest in Your Relationship

The markets are in turmoil, prices are sky rocketing, businesses are failing and jobs are being lost. These financial stress factors are causing a negative spiral that touches everything in our lives. Although we try to hide our worries, increased stress creates a tension between the people we love at a time when we need them the most. This is the time when you need to invest in your relationship.

When times are tough and getting rougher, couples are at risk of creating a divide between themselves. They unintentionally allow adverse situations to influence their feelings for each other. We tend to distance ourselves from people with a negative attitude. But, when we do this to our partners, it leads to subtle feelings of resentment, distrust, and blame (among others) that simmer and bubble into a toxic brew that eats away at your relationship. All these bad feelings can turn to depression, anger and even hatred toward the person you love. This can lead to separation, infidelity, divorce or worse. You need each other now more than ever. Provide each other mutual support to resist negative emotions. Work together as a team to build a life filled with an abundance of fun, love and happiness.

It is unfortunate, but, in a relationship plagued by external stress factors, emotional, sensual and sexual intimacy are the first to go (usually in that order). Lack of desire or even erectile dysfunction adds to the stress and tension. Sex of course is the best medicine - good loving sexual intimacy is healing in so many ways. Not only does it strengthen your emotional bonds, your body and brain chemistry are perked up as well. It brightens your mood and just makes you feel good. While an orgasm is the ultimate in stress release, all your moments of affectionate closeness and mutual pleasuring help you cope with the intense pressures of life.

So, rather than watching the news, turn off the television and focus on loving and pleasuring each other. Guard your happiness together like the treasure it is and invest in your relationship so that it prospers. Interest in each other is worth so much more than a bank can give you. As a couple, be aware of world events but remember that sensual intimacy together is more critical than ever for your relationship stability. The economy will work itself out so ensure your relationship weathers this financial storm.

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Anal Sex – Natural Sex Ideas

Beautiful images from nature can stimulate very erotic thoughts. These two flowers are from my wife’s flower garden. Even alone, the resemblance to certain erogenous zones is hard to overlook. Together, your erotic imagination gravitates to a single taboo, albeit very natural, sexual activity. With this picture as inspiration, let’s consider a few anal sex and anal foreplay ideas.

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Locations to Make Love

Loch Ard Gorge Panorama picture from Wikipedia

Continuing on with the earlier Natural Foreplay Ideas post, here is a picture I stumbled upon that immediately conjures up interesting thoughts (at least in my dirty mind). It also ties in with a new article I recently published 69 Places For Passion - Lusty Locations to Make Love.

This article has been moved to Ideas for Exciting and Exotic Lovemaking Locations on our main site.

Sexual Knowledge Equals Better Sex

I was browsing through the web using StumbleUpon and discovered a very interesting site called Cunnilingus: How To Eat Pussy. It is a very provocative site that includes a lot of useful sexual information combined with thoughtful research.

The introduction video expresses a philosophy of human sexuality that resonates with my own thoughts and feelings regarding relationships and the importance of sexual intimacy. Please take a look. I enjoyed watching her crack up through parts of it. Humor and sex is important too.

And, of course, her oral sex tips and techniques article is very well written too. You will enjoy her ideas. Take a look at the other articles on the site as well. With greater knowledge of our sexuality, we are more able to creatively explore shared pleasures with our partners.

Do you think you received enough sex education in school (not just the biology lessons)? What are your thoughts regarding how prepared people are going into a sexual relationship today?

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Strippopoly – Swingers Game for Couples

Erotic-opoly or Sex-opoly seems like a natural adult extension to a very popular board game. If you are in a playful, frisky mood, you can whip out the game and slyly suggest a few twists to the rules. Almost everyone knows how to play the basic game and who can’t resist the lure of sex & money. Either alone with your lover or with a small group of intimate friends, an innocent board game can be transformed into a delicious game of stripping, foreplay, erotic dares and naughty surprises. Stimulating fun all around.

I have devised a number of erotic-opoly variations myself. But recently I discovered and purchased what I thought would be a great erotic game based on the popular game concept. Although Strippopoly is considered an adult party game, it did seem like it would be playable as a more intimate, foreplay style game for two. Nope – it definitely requires 2 or more couples to play. It does claim there are three levels of play so it can technically be played with touching between partners only or, for a “swinging good time”, with sexual touching among all players.

Hmmmm – what if you are comfortable talking and laughing about sex with close friends but are just not ready to strip down and perform in front of them (even if it is your secret fantasy)? A good naughty game might tempt people to reveal their sexually playful nature - in more ways than one. In the right situation and with just the right encouragement, you would be amazed what people will do to win a game. Even if you don’t all get stripped bare, you can still enjoy some frisky fun. Unfortunately, unless you are doing some serious drinking, Strippopoly does not have the right ingredients to spice up a non-swinger party.

That is, not without a few improvements. The basic Strippopoly game definitely has potential but it needs a few rule modifications and some enhancements to really bring it to life as both an intimate game for two and an erotic party game for more. Check out the full Strippopoly review and the Cyber SexOpoly transformation kit designed to make it even more fun. If you don’t have Strippopoly yet, check out the Frisky Business transformation kit for your regular board game.

If you already own a copy of Strippopoly, please let us know about some of your experiences playing it.

Delicious Marriage Intimacy: 10 Sensual Treats

Before you can spice up a marriage and inflame your passion, the basic ingredients of your relationship recipe need some attention. Spicy nights of steamy sex need to be tempered with sensual pleasuring sessions. By learning to enjoy the subtle sensations of loving intimacy together, you will both be able to more fully appreciate the full variety of erotic treats available to you. Sweet and delicious, hearty and satisfying, spicy hot or exotic and decadent, develop an appetite for everything on the sex menu as you sample and savor all the possible flavors of your intimate experiences together.

Make pleasure a priority in your relationship. Take time to enjoy each other with these succulent suggestions:

1. Shower together. Give your lover a sensual scalp massage while you shampoo and condition their hair. Lather your bodies up with soap and slither and slide against each other. Caressing each other while slick with soap can also feel amazing. Sex in the shower may be a bit awkward but can be very enjoyable. Try using a detachable massaging shower head for extra stimulation.
2. Have a bubble bath together. Arrange some candles, incense, soft music and maybe some chilled wine ahead of time. Set aside alone time for relaxing together in calm and soothing tranquility. Save the sex for later when you are dry and ready to cuddle in a comfy bed.
3. Take hand in hand nature walks together. Find time to get away from the bustle and stress of every day life. Moon or star light walks at night, strolling along a beach or water front, secluded picnics by a stream, or just wandering through a nature trail are times together that will strengthen your bonds of love and affection.
4. Enjoy food intimately. Prepare a tray with a number of different food items chosen for their texture, taste and smell. Include various fruit, syrups, whip cream, liquors and, of course, some refreshing drinks. One at a time, blind fold and feed each other samples with a focus on the taste sensation. See if they can guess what it is. Sensually apply some of the food to regions of your lover’s body then lick or nibble it off.
5. Appreciate an appetizing aroma. An intoxicating smell can be very sexy and stimulate desire. Choose a favorite perfume and cologne that you each wear only for intimate nights together. Create a scent memory associated with romantic feelings that can get you in the mood in an instant. Play a perfume game searching your body for a secretly applied scent. Delicately stroke your lover’s face with a fresh rose bud or flower. Or just revel in your lover’s nature scent laced with sex pheromones.
6. Enjoy a candlelight dinner together. Although dining out is wonderful now and then, preparing and cooking your own dinner together can be even more rewarding. Organize the meal items so that you can quickly get dressed in evening wear before dinner to make it even more special. Enjoy your food with soft music and candles to create a romantic atmosphere. And, if cooking at home, make it simple so there is little or no mess to clean up before enjoying each other.
7. Slow dance naked together. In a dark room with the soft glow of candle or moon light, slow dance naked to romantic music. Gently stroke each other’s bodies as you hold each other close. Kiss each other tenderly with loving affection and gaze into each others eyes. These quiet moments of intimacy can be very emotionally fulfilling.
8. Give each other an oil massage. The sensual feeling of fingers and palms gliding smoothly over oiled skin is highly erotic for both the giver and receiver of the massage. Although there are books on relaxing and erotic massage techniques, once you try it you will quickly discover what feels good. In addition to the obvious (back, shoulders and legs), give some attention to fingers, toes, chest and stomach before venturing to the eager erogenous zones.
9. Indulge in the luxury of satin or silk on skin. Wear silky smooth lingerie for women and boxers for guys. Caress your lover through the fabric and enjoy the sensual feel as body parts slide and glide across each other. Get naked in bed with satin or high thread count sheets and make love together in style.
10. Experience super slow motion sex. Rather than attempting to trigger an orgasm, focus on the sensations you feel during intercourse. Every twitch, throb and pulse. The warmth and wetness of your special union. Become aware of how even breathing creates subtle sensations in your loins.

Awaken your desires for sensual pleasure together and you will stimulate a renewed hunger for each other.

How do you create intimacy in your marriage?

Spice Up Your Marriage – 10 Ideas

Every one wants an exciting sex life however many couples discover their passion for each other slowly fades after a while. The initial hormone induced feelings of lust fueling many seemingly endless nights of lovemaking do eventually weaken. This does not mean your intimate times together need to be routine or boring. As you get to know each other more, it is actually the perfect opportunity to spice up your marriage with more intimate thrills. Take the risk to add a little creative sexual adventure and you will rediscover an excitement that will reignite your passion for life and each other.

1. Read erotica together. Although the juicy letters in many adult magazines are great for quick fun, higher quality short stories and novels provide a richer source of erotic inspiration to stimulate mutual fantasies and real life activities. The settings and situations described may even stimulate a bit of role playing. Take turns reading out loud to each other. You will get more comfortable talking about sex and your own desires as well. Check out the Black Lace book collection for some great examples.
2. Watch spicy and romantic movies alone together. Dirty movies have their place for bedroom fun but engaging movies with plots, characters, exotic situations and risqué adventure stimulate your minds more. Dedicated cuddle time watching a movie together helps to develop closeness with shared ideas for your own fun. The key is to discuss the movie before and afterwards to reinforce an awareness of how it stimulates each others desires and fantasies.
3. Play couples games together. There are many adult, romantic, relationship and foreplay games available but any game for two will do. You can even add sexual forfeits to spice up your own favorite games. Go beyond just stripping and include an entire range of erotic treats to win. Add a sense of competition and reward good play with exceptional foreplay.
4. Stimulate all your senses. Take a night and indulge in creative ways to enhance your lovemaking by focusing on various senses one at a time. Sound may involve background music, talking dirty or even absolute quiet. Scent in the form of perfume, cologne, incense, flowers and even food can be used to awaken or instill long lasting emotional memories and feelings. Seeing each other naked or dressed in sexy clothing under the soft glow of colored lights, candlelight or moonlight can add to your visual excitement. Experiment with different textures or touching techniques to heighten sensitivity over your entire body. Use foods, syrups, liquors and even flavored lubes creatively to stimulate your hunger for other sensual treats.
5. Exercise together. Not only does exercise keep you in shape for great sex, it stimulates hormone production that increases your desire for sex. With more energy and stamina, your lovemaking can be more vigorous and last longer too.
6. Have random sex. Agree to get lucky in love and take a chance to do something unexpected. Use some form of randomizing technique (dice, spinner, cards, ideas from a jar, lottery ticket numbers, etc.) to choose one or more erotic activities to enjoy. Include some of your favorites, some rare activities and maybe a few new ones that are a little more naughty than usual.
7. Plan spontaneous sex. Either alone or together, plan a sexual adventure involving an impromptu meeting and mating. Always have contingency plans in case unexpected situations arise so you are not disappointed. By planning an erotic tryst in advance, you will also keep your mind open for opportunities for wild sex when ever they occur.
8. Create a pleasure chest with delightful sex accessories. Beyond the standard sex toys, lingerie and leather, keep your eyes and minds open for regular household items with pleasure potential. Go sex shopping together and search for unique items that could be used for erotic and sensual stimulation. Consider the texture, shape, size, temperature and how it will feel stroking, tapping, scratching, rubbing, etc. on various areas of the body.
9. Invest in a private love library. The more carnal knowledge you possess, the more variety you can add to your sex life. On going sex education is a good thing especially when you do it together as a couple and combine it with hands on experience. Make it a practice to buy a new sex book with new tips and ideas once or twice a year. Browse them and read interesting sections together so you are learning at the same time and can support each other trying out new ideas.
10. Go out on dates together. Romantic, fun, exciting and relaxing escapes together all add different elements to your relationship. These are not necessarily times you will have sex together but you will definitely improve your overall intimacy and enhance your feelings toward each other.

Make your sex life a priority -- it is an essential component of a happy and successful marriage. It may take some effort but mutual fun and sensual pleasure will ensure your love lasts a good long time.

Please share some of ideas you use to spice up your relationship with your wife, husband or significant other. My wife and I would love to hear from you.

Hot Games for Couples

The finishing touches have been completed and a new website has been launched:

Games for Couples - Spice up your relationship!

This website has been setup to provide couples with erotic games that will add excitement and fun into your relationship - the spice that will maintain or rekindle the intimacy and passion that keeps couples together. New game designs and detailed reviews of other bedroom games will be added. Check it out. If you have any suggestions for adult games to be reviewed or games you would recommend to others, please let us know.

Originally we provided over 20 exciting erotic games packaged together and available for download to add sizzle to your sex life. We've decided to discontinue this product and instead provide them in a book called Sex Games & Foreplay Ideas for Couples available from Amazon. You can get it on Kindle too.   These are not your standard stripping games. They encourage playful competition but sex is definitely on the menu. You're sure to score some frisky foreplay too - delicious tips, exciting activities and sexy ideas that will spark the flames of your passion.

The adult games include erotic variations of classic card, dice and board games as well as darts and billiards. There is a full range of sexy games to suit any desire and provide lots of opportunity for frisky fun.