Saturday, December 8, 2007

Fabulous Foreplay

It is well known that prolonged foreplay is essential to good sex. Extended pleasuring is one of the best ways to dramatically intensify your orgasm (or ensure you get one). And yet, lack of foreplay (quality and quantity) still ranks as a common issue for most couples. This is a shame. There are so many potential pleasuring possibilities available to enjoy.

Think of foreplay as a combination of various erotically stimulating activities. Anything that builds arousal and excitement. Good foreplay starts with the mind. Even hints of desire or sexy signals of your intentions can get your sexual juices flowing before you even touch each other. And when you do kiss and touch, let your arousal guide your physical intensity without rushing to climax. Create anticipation for your orgasms as you savour the sensual ecstasy of your intimate play. It may take a bit of time and energy but this adult play is intended to be fun. Take time to enjoy the experience each and every time.

Most people think of foreplay as a few kisses and licks on a few erogenous zones before intercourse. But great foreplay incorporates different types and combinations of emotional, intellectual and physical stimulation. Seductive mind games can keep your arousal simmering for days before you ignite your passions with intense sex. Or you can create the mood with slow and sensual physical pleasuring leading to more intimate lovemaking. Creatively mixing sensual and emotional stimulation is the key to keeping your sexual interests high.

With the right sexual signals, your brain and body can get excited and ready for sex very quickly. There are times when a quickie is what you both want and need but most other times sexual intimacy deserves to be an extended experience. When you make pleasure a priority for yourself and each other, all your intimate activities will be opportunities For Play.

Consider:
  • What combinations of romantic, sensual and sexual activities would make foreplay absolutely fabulous for you?
  • What new pleasuring techniques can you incorporate into your foreplay repertoire?

Please leave any ideas you have to share. I will be sharing more Creative Orgasms Made Easy ideas here as well.

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