Intimate Valentine's Day Ideas for Lovers

Valentine's Day is considered a special day for romance and love. What better way to express your love for your partner than pampering her with intimate pleasure. Here are some foreplay ideas to enjoy as a climax to a romantic day:

V ibrators are great for couples play before, during and after intercourse

A ural arousal with hot talk of wild sex and erotic fantasies is mental foreplay

L eisurely lick her labia and clitoris while she enjoys the succulent sensations

E xpress lusty sounds of passion, moans of pleasure and sighs of ecstasy

N ipples perk to attention when cooled with ice and warmed with a hot tongue

T ickle and tease her entire body with a feather, rose bud or artist brush

I nsert a chilled glass or ice dildo for a sensational surprise that will get her hot

N aughty and kinky foreplay can satisfy her deepest, secret sexual desires

E nhance manual, oral pleasuring with warming lube on her nipples and clitoris

S low dance naked in candlelight while kissing and caressing each other

D rizzle chocolate syrup on her nipples and navel then lick it off sensually

A ss play that includes spanking, massaging and anal stimulation is great fun

Y earning for your penis, enter her hot wet pussy as slowly as you can

Happy Valentine's Day!

Clitoris Foreplay

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Foreplay Games - Intimate Love Play for Couples

To maintain both the quality and quantity of sexual intimacy in a relationship over time, couples need to play together more. While growing up, play was a fun and natural way to learn and develop important skills. It may sound strange but, as adults, we still need to play and have fun learning and interacting. For couples, sensual love play not only encourages more intimacy, it stimulates deeper levels of communication and bonding.

Foreplay games for lovers are designed to encourage intimate exploration of mind and body. They provide a means to introduce new sensual activities and topics of discussion in different combinations. Even in mature relationships, many people find it difficult to introduce new erotic desires or talk about sensitive subjects involving their sexual needs. With cards and dice, foreplay games offer up sensual ideas in random sequences and in different combinations. By agreeing to play a game and adhere to the rules, even timid lovers will push their boundaries and overcome some of their sexual inhibitions.

And, of course, sensual stimulation during your foreplay fun will lead to amazing sex play. Prolonged foreplay and extended pleasuring are the best ways to dramatically intensify your orgasm(s). Foreplay games not only pace your pleasuring, the random sensual activities during the game play will help intensify arousal and build excitement.

Not all erotic games will suite your interests but there is an extensive variety to choose from. Certain types focus on intimate communication and sensual exploration while others encourage more sexual variety and risqué fun. It is curious however that many foreplay game designs tend to dilute the thrill and challenge of competitive or skilled play. With an appropriate sexual forfeit or reward, a passionate desire to win can be very stimulating (see Forfeits Foreplay for a list of competitive erotic games including full rules). Keep an eye out for creative games that might help spice up your sex life. Try playing a few adult games with your lover and see if you enjoy experiencing random acts of pleasure together.

There is always something new to discover about yourself, your lover and your relationship so love play is important regardless of your age. Whether in a new or mature relationship, couples need to make intimate play a priority and take the time to have fun with each other. Couples that play together stay together is not just a trite cliché but rather valuable words of advice. What ever games you play, fun times together will increase your joy and happiness and improve your life in many ways. Have fun and enjoy each other with a creative sense of adventure.

We have developed a number of foreplay games specifically to help couples play together more and experience a greater variety of pleasures. Our Frisky Foreplay erotic dice game is very popular with over 200 hot foreplay ideas for each of you. Click Here to get it today. It also comes with the Fooling Around game as a bonus. Also take a look at our newest erotic game called Going Down Getting Off that you can download and start playing tonight. And check out the Adult Board Game Design website for more ideas.

If you enjoy playing foreplay and sex games, please leave a comment describing the types of games you like to play and what makes them enjoyable (or not). What makes a foreplay game good in your opinion?

I am also intrigued that foreplay games for Gay & Lesbian couples are rare or non-existent. Is there a market for these types of games?

Enjoying Erotica Together

Sexual material intended to arouse, titillate, educate and inspire has been around since the dawn of human history. Until recently, erotica has been primarily the prized possession of only the wealthy or ruling classes. Throughout the ages, paintings, sculptures and literary works of art have depicted our sexual nature in all its forms. From romantic and beautiful to mysterious and fanciful to nasty and depraved, great pieces of artwork have the power to trigger strong emotions and stimulate our imagination. How you perceive and react to this erotic material is a reflection of your self and your own secret desires and fears.

Openly sharing your thoughts, feelings and desires with your lover can be more intimate than sex itself. It is a delicate subject. It may even be intimidating to face your own thoughts and feelings. But, with a playful attitude, various types of erotica can be used to introduce and explore many diverse sexual topics with your lover. Erotic literature and art can be a valuable source for new ideas to enhance your sexual enjoyment together. There are various genres of erotica to suite your personal preference, stimulate specific desires or satisfy a certain need:

• Randy Readers: Erotic romance novels and short stories for women are becoming extremely popular for both sexes. The Black Lace series, for example, are very well written and their popularity is encouraging more. Although reading is generally a solitary activity, sharing snippets of the storyline can be enough to draw your lover into the fantasy with you. Short erotic stories for couples are also available that can be read out loud to each other. Collections of sexual fantasies are available to inspire your own or reassure yourself that others have similar thoughts. Nancy Friday’s books include a broad range of sexual fantasies from men and women. And of course, there are magazines with letters depicting erotic activities and sexual adventures. Whether real or professionally written, these stories can be entertaining either way.
• Carnal Knowledge: Modern sex manuals and how to guides usually come with some juicy descriptive text segments and full color pictures or illustrations. Browsing for and discussing new sexual ideas that pique your interest is a great way to expand your sexual repertoire. Ideas that get a positive reaction can be tried right away or mentally stored for future fun and games. Try picking a book and have your lover choose a page number randomly then experiment with an idea on that page.
• Prurient Paintings: Drawings, illustrations and paintings in various media depict human (and non-human) sexuality in all sorts of realistic and fanciful forms. Erotic art from various countries, cultures and historic time periods may stimulate your interests and may even provide the inspiration for a roleplaying fantasy. Use the erotic imagination of the artist to stimulate your own wild thoughts. Discovering how each other interprets the image can be enlightening. Accentuating your bedroom with special pieces of erotic art can turn it into a pleasure den – a constant reminder of your passionate desires. Or, purchase a few erotic art books or electronic collections for periodic browsing now and again. Each viewing will stimulate new desires.
• Sensual Sounds: Although most people are visually oriented, many prefer aural stimulation. Erotic audio programs are available with guided sexual fantasies complete with sound effects. The Cyborgasm CDs utilized 3D sound technology that can immerse you in the experience. Although you may be able to enact the story as it progresses, mutual masturbation or oral sex while listening together can be just as thrilling. Try two headphones connected with a Y-splitter. Even a background porn sound track can be exciting while having sex together.
• Films & Photos: Pictorial magazines and adult videos are the mainstream types of erotica. Although pornography has a bad reputation, it does serve a useful purpose in many intimate relationships. The market has shifted to include more female oriented content with an emphasis on quality. Romantic, erotic and hard core adult films and still images are available to suite the level of explicitness desired and almost every conceivable sexual activity you could imagine. Animations and special effects are being used to visually explore the very wild side of eroticism. While not every one will like the same type of material, exploring different types and styles of visual entertainment together opens the possibility of discovering something mutually enjoyable.
• Physical Beauty: Statues, sculptures and even smaller sexual artifacts can be erotic. Body art and fashion (including lingerie) can also be stimulating. Sensual dance, risqué performance art and even live sex shows are other avenues for erotic adventure.

Not all erotic art will arouse you directly but may just trigger interesting thoughts and sexy ideas. Like it, love it or leave it, at least be open to experimenting with various types and styles of erotica. With an open mind, the power of choice and an enthusiastic sense of adventure, a wealth of erotic possibilities are available for you to discover and enjoy.
Consider creating your own erotic art together. Highlight what you find beautiful and attractive about your lover or yourself. Take a life drawing or digital photography course together and practice expressing yourselves as artist or subject. You can use a computer paint application to enhance your work before making a print to hang on your wall. Or create a slide show for your digital picture frame. Alternatively, try crafting an erotic story, poem or screen play detailing one of your fantasies. You can even film your own erotic scenes and use video editing software to create a sexual master piece. Have fun making and enjoying your erotic art together in what ever form you desire. The more you think about sex together, the more you will want it together.
Appreciating quality erotic art in all its forms should be encouraged. Some artists will push against boundaries and restrictions while others will unfortunately have their talents for creative eroticism suppressed. It can be extremely rewarding to enjoy erotic art with your lover. Becoming aware of how and why you respond to specific nuances of the material will give you insights into each other’s erotic nature. And, with a greater, more intimate understanding of yourself and your lover, you have the foundation to build a better relationship together.
What is your favorite type of erotica and what makes it special for you?

Fabulous Foreplay

It is well known that prolonged foreplay is essential to good sex. Extended pleasuring is one of the best ways to dramatically intensify your orgasm (or ensure you get one). And yet, lack of foreplay (quality and quantity) still ranks as a common issue for most couples. This is a shame. There are so many potential pleasuring possibilities available to enjoy.

Think of foreplay as a combination of various erotically stimulating activities. Anything that builds arousal and excitement. Good foreplay starts with the mind. Even hints of desire or sexy signals of your intentions can get your sexual juices flowing before you even touch each other. And when you do kiss and touch, let your arousal guide your physical intensity without rushing to climax. Create anticipation for your orgasms as you savour the sensual ecstasy of your intimate play. It may take a bit of time and energy but this adult play is intended to be fun. Take time to enjoy the experience each and every time.

Most people think of foreplay as a few kisses and licks on a few erogenous zones before intercourse. But great foreplay incorporates different types and combinations of emotional, intellectual and physical stimulation. Seductive mind games can keep your arousal simmering for days before you ignite your passions with intense sex. Or you can create the mood with slow and sensual physical pleasuring leading to more intimate lovemaking. Creatively mixing sensual and emotional stimulation is the key to keeping your sexual interests high.

With the right sexual signals, your brain and body can get excited and ready for sex very quickly. There are times when a quickie is what you both want and need but most other times sexual intimacy deserves to be an extended experience. When you make pleasure a priority for yourself and each other, all your intimate activities will be opportunities For Play.

Consider:

• What combinations of romantic, sensual and sexual activities would make foreplay absolutely fabulous for you?
• What new pleasuring techniques can you incorporate into your foreplay repertoire?

Please leave any ideas you have to share. I will be sharing more Creative Orgasms Made Easy ideas here as well.