20) COMING TOO SOON.The image of my wife's eyes rolling back in her head during orgasm as an indicator of when I should shoot sent me into fits of laughter (had thoughts of a shark going for the kill and a demon possessed girl as in the Exorcist). The common perception is that guys generally ejaculate prematurely. But then comes (pun intended of course) the very next complaint:
Every man's fear with reason. If you shoot before you see the whites of her eyes, make sure you have a backup plan to ensure her pleasure too.
21) NOT COMING SOON ENOUGH.Curiously absent from the main list, something men really do fear even more:
It may appear to you that humping for an hour without climaxing is the mark of a sex god, but to her it's more likely the mark of a numb vagina.
?) NOT GETTING IT UPThe penis is a strange, seemingly untamable beast which, at times, appears as if it has a mind of its own - especially to the person it is attached to. Except for a few self centered cavemen out there, most reasonably intelligent men genuinely care about their partner's pleasure. The "jokes" about male sexual performance can be funny if you accept occasional equipment malfunction and adapt to other mutually enjoyable pleasuring techniques. However, if you are afflicted by impotence, erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, it is definitely not funny. And, you know that worrying about it tends to make it worse. It can get to the point where you even want to avoid sex altogether to escape inevitable embarrassment and criticism.
When you have a ready and willing naked woman in bed with you, failing to get an erection is an insult to her. She will feel there is something wrong with her (or take offense and ridicule you).
Sometimes, our "special friend" just doesn't want to cooperate due to our stress, physical or mental exhaustion, excessive drinking, etc. There are of course certain male performance issues due to biological problems that will require medical attention. However, unless you have chronic erectile dysfunction, there are other solutions that you can use. They can dramatically transform your sexual performance and allow you to enjoy more satisfying pleasure with your partner. Discover how you can improve your sex life with lasting change instead of quick fixes or avoidance. Make your sexual performance, mutual pleasure and your happiness together a priority – you both deserve it.
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If an unfortunate equipment malfunction does occur, take the time to pleasure your lover in other ways. Remember that only 30% of women have actually achieved orgasm during intercourse – and that does NOT mean every time they have intercourse either. Women generally take longer to work up to orgasmic arousal which is why foreplay is so important. In addition to mental stimulation to set the mood, oral and manual stimulation of her entire body is essential (not an hour of thrusting).
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