Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Male Sexual Performance Solutions for Improved Satisfaction

I was recently looking for some good Foreplay related Facebook groups to join and came across 40 Mistakes Men Make While Having Sex With Women. This particular item cracked me up when I first read it (funny part in bold):

Every man's fear with reason. If you shoot before you see the whites of her eyes, make sure you have a backup plan to ensure her pleasure too.
The image of my wife's eyes rolling back in her head during orgasm as an indicator of when I should shoot sent me into fits of laughter (had thoughts of a shark going for the kill and a demon possessed girl as in the Exorcist). The common perception is that guys generally ejaculate prematurely. But then comes (pun intended of course) the very next complaint:

It may appear to you that humping for an hour without climaxing is the mark of a sex god, but to her it's more likely the mark of a numb vagina.
Curiously absent from the main list, something men really do fear even more:

When you have a ready and willing naked woman in bed with you, failing to get an erection is an insult to her. She will feel there is something wrong with her (or take offense and ridicule you).
The penis is a strange, seemingly untamable beast which, at times, appears as if it has a mind of its own - especially to the person it is attached to. Except for a few self centered cavemen out there, most reasonably intelligent men genuinely care about their partner's pleasure. The "jokes" about male sexual performance can be funny if you accept occasional equipment malfunction and adapt to other mutually enjoyable pleasuring techniques. However, if you are afflicted by impotence, erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, it is definitely not funny. And, you know that worrying about it tends to make it worse. It can get to the point where you even want to avoid sex altogether to escape inevitable embarrassment and criticism.

Sometimes, our "special friend" just doesn't want to cooperate due to our stress, physical or mental exhaustion, excessive drinking, etc. There are of course certain male performance issues due to biological problems that will require medical attention. However, unless you have chronic erectile dysfunction, there are other solutions that you can use. They can dramatically transform your sexual performance and allow you to enjoy more satisfying pleasure with your partner. Discover how you can improve your sex life with lasting change instead of quick fixes or avoidance. Make your sexual performance, mutual pleasure and your happiness together a priority – you both deserve it.

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If an unfortunate equipment malfunction does occur, take the time to pleasure your lover in other ways. Remember that only 30% of women have actually achieved orgasm during intercourse – and that does NOT mean every time they have intercourse either. Women generally take longer to work up to orgasmic arousal which is why foreplay is so important. In addition to mental stimulation to set the mood, oral and manual stimulation of her entire body is essential (not an hour of thrusting).

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Monday, December 29, 2008

Secret Arts of Hot Erotic Talk - Talking Dirty is Hot Foreplay

Does the idea of dirty talk in the bedroom get you excited? Have you been asked to talk dirty while making love but are too shy to go for it? Or, do you want some hot erotic talk from your lover but they feel too inhibited to let go? You are not alone.

Talking dirty is not just about using naughty or even filthy words. It is about the erotic emotions and desires you want to convey and express. Sometimes you want to scream profanities in unbridled passion and at other times whisper the same words in public as a flirtatious hint of your frisky intentions. Think of the sultry whisper of a seductress, the harsh command of a dominatrix or the ecstatic moans of a porn star. You can seed your lover's erotic imagination with explicitly descriptive detail or seduce them with simple phrases spoken in a sexy tone.

Article moved to Secret Arts of Hot Erotic Talk and Talking Dirty is Hot Foreplay on the Sexy Suggestions website.

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Do you enjoy talking dirty in bed? What do you say to get your partner hot and ready for sex? Leave a comment describing your experience with erotic talk.

Dirty Talking Tips to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Friday, December 12, 2008

Get Frisky During the Holidays - 10 Randy Reasons to Have More Festive Sex

With all the hustle and bustle during the holidays, many couples tend to overlook their own pleasure. The spirit of giving should apply to yourself and your relationship as well. Not in a selfish way of course, but rather as a way to enhance your bond together so that you have even more joy and happiness to share. The holidays provide the perfect opportunity to get frisky with each other and have more intimate fun together. Here are 10 randy reasons to enjoy more sex during the holidays:

  1. You have more time to leisurely enjoy deeper levels of intimacy. Luxuriate in the subtle sensual pleasures of prolonged foreplay as you creatively explore each others' mind and body.

  2. When you have great sex you are happier with each other and toward other people. You will radiate a warm glow that will touch everyone you meet. You will indirectly share your love for each other and add more cheer to the holiday season.

  3. Adapt the 12 Days of Christmas concept into a creative challenge to have different sexual experiences 12 days in a row. Plan unique sex play ideas together in advance or spontaneously surprise your lover with a totally new sensual delight each day. Bonus points if you can include all activities from previous days building toward a spectacular climax. Keep the erotic fires burning through the holidays.

  4. Create lasting memories with a special new relationship building tradition just for the two of you. It can be simple and sweet such as slow dancing naked at midnight while kissing under mistletoe or extravagant like having sex together in a different city or country every year. Give yourself something naughty or nice to look forward to all year long.

  5. Plan a private, more intimate gift giving time with distinctly erotic intentions. Surprise each other with unique or exotic luxury love toys and accessories that convey how much you treasure the pleasures you share together.

  6. Get ready for an evening out two hours early then ravish each other while dressed up and looking your best. Have sex while partially clothed to make it even more exciting. Even if just a quickie, your sexy tryst will have you eagerly anticipating more fun when you return home. Also, it is a good reason to drink in moderation so you can keep your private after party going all night.

  7. Sex burns off calories and is an excellent exercise when done vigorously for extended periods. Enjoy feasting while knowing you will need the energy later to keep up with each other. Hot & sticky sexercise sessions for at least 20 minutes three times a week can be great for your health.

  8. Schedule time for sensual stress relief to break up the hectic holiday festivities. Great sex is an excellent way to melt away stress. Multiple sex therapy sessions during the day may be in order. If you don't think you have time for sex, reconsider, make it a priority and you will be amazed how good you feel.

  9. Savor chocolates, sweet liquors and other deliciously succulent holiday foods while thinking of naughty ways to incorporate them into your sex play. Secretly flirt and tempt each other with decadent ideas of oral arousal. Everything will taste even better when you whet your erotic appetite for each other.

  10. Challenge each other to have a simultaneous orgasm at the stroke of midnight on New Year's Eve. You may want to rehearse frequently before the big event to get the timing right.

Sexual intimacy is essential to a healthy, loving relationship. Regardless of your reasons, take advantage of any opportunity you can to make love. During this holiday season, show how much you appreciate the one you love by spending more intimate time enjoying each other. Your gift of loving pleasure will be treasured. Make pleasure a priority and enjoy great sex together as often as you can what ever your reason.