Monday, March 28, 2011

Try Bondage Play Together

Daily idea for fun sexy questions to ask your partner:

How do you feel about experimenting with bondage?

Bondage play requires a great deal of trust in your partner. It can arouse very intense feelings. In the right context and mindset, bondage can be fun and exciting. But in other situations, it can be extremely distressing and emotionally upsetting. Ask your partner how they feel about experimenting with bondage and start an intimate discussion to get a sense of how they may react in different scenarios. Consider talking about how you would each feel being tied up and how you think you would act having your partner tied up. Talk about various sexual roleplay fantasies you would like to act out and discuss various restraint techniques. While a fear factor may add to the erotic thrill, you definitely want to eliminate any real dangers so talk about safety aspects of bondage play too. Do some research on it together to find out more. Remember to agree on a safe word.

If you're just starting out with bondage play, I highly recommend you get the Bondage Bedsheet. This velcro restraint kit for lovers is designed for light bondage so it feels less threatening for beginners who need to know that they can escape if they really feel the need to. The specially padded ankle and wrist cuffs are much safer than ropes or ties. They can also be quickly and easily moved to permit a wide variety of bondage positions.

If you think bondage play might be a great way to spice up your sex life, ask your partner a few intimate questions to see if they feel the same way.


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