Daily idea for sexy dating questions to ask your partner:
What kinds of unusual things do you find erotic and get turned on by?
Everyone is unique in how their arousal circuits are wired in their brain. Of course a lot of what we find erotic and arousing is based on our biology (gender, hormones, genetics, etc.) but our experiences play a very significant role. Our mate selection preferences are heavily influenced by emotional impressions from our childhood. Some preferences may have been caused by intense events while others were subtly layered over many years. You might not even be conscious of why you are aroused by certain things. Regardless of how your erotic preferences developed, they define an important and interesting part of your personality. Although it takes a lot of trust to explore and share these intimate details with a partner, knowing what turns each other on can dramatically enhance your sex life together. But be extremely considerate and listen with an open mind when you ask intimate questions about deeply personal and sensitive topics like this.
When you discover and fully appreciate the unique erotic personality of your partner, you'll be able to inspire each other to enjoy a lifetime of passion. For exercises to help develop your sexual communication skills and discover what turns you on, take a look at the book Getting The Sex You Want. I highly recommend this book.
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